Is Your Core Identity Extraordinary or Blah?
Who you truly see you are directs all you do and your life results
It is well-established; 90% of all your troubles are caused by what you do. All humans are self-destructive. It's ultimately why we all die. Now, before all you toxic positivity people start exclaiming that "I'm a 10!" (which actually reveals) that you see your core self as low worth, so you armor behind self-deceit.
Are You Extraordinary?
There are two answers: intrinsically & behaviorally
The behaviorally extraordinary are;
• the most loved, loving, and enlightened
• the happiest, healthiest, and longest-living
• the most resilient (by far): fending off 90% of all health/life problems of common humans
Today, it seems like everyone is trying to be “extraordinary” in the form of looking hot, rich, famous, etc. so they can be memorable. Thus, nearly all of us are incurring unprecedented levels of daily social stress from feeling not “extraordinary enough.” Not good enough. However, who was the hottest, richest, most famous etc. in the 1800s? In 1900s? In 1950, 1975, 2000, 2010, 2015, 2020? No one can remember, because no one cares.
Why not? Because being hot, rich, famous...fades like the morning mist. In addition, most fake it. Nothing specifically wrong with being hot, rich..., but they just aren't as memorable as many of us think.
You Are Intrinsically Extraordinary!
Most are so busy chasing “extraordinary” that we've forgotten, we already are.
Because we the extraordinary have been brainwashed to do the ordinary.
“Forest Gump's mother said this timeless truth, 'Stupid is as stupid does.' Thus, ordinary is as ordinary does.”
Richard Lee, PUUR Founder
People the world over who are at the summit of wisdom know; the #1 factor that separates extraordinary people (from others) is that they not only preach, but they practice LOVING MORE much more than ordinary people do.
Remember Gandhi, Mother Teresa, Martin Luther King Jr., Dalai Lama, and the incomparable, perfect, sacrificial love of Jesus? We all do. Why?
Because they are all known for LOVING MORE than anyone else! Not just talk and feelings, but action! Thus, by their action of Loving More, they have withstood the eraser of time. While hottest, richest...are soon forgotten.
See Why Love More Is the Most Powerful Medicine & Nutrition
Watch 1-min clip of The Father of Lifestyle Medicine, Twice Presidential Special Health Advisor, NYT Best-Selling Author, Dr. Dean Ornish, MD.
“This is the miracle that happens every time to those who really love: the more they give, the more they possess.”
Rainer Rilke
With each PUUR, you're sending to hearts all over the world, Philia Love: the most powerful comforter, healer, and transformer, secularly speaking.
Friendship: Philia (/ˈfɪliə/; from Ancient Greek φιλία), translated “highest form of love”, is one of four ancient Greek words for love: philia, storge, agape and eros.
Merriam Webster Dictionary
Philia love boosts ("Oxytocin") and joy ("Serotonin") which are THE BEST:
• Stress detox
• Beautifier, de-stressor
• Love attractor
• Anti-aging renewer
• Body shaper
• Muscle repairer
• Skin rejuvenator
• Life upgrader
• Success builder
• Courage raiser
• Brain booster
• Pain reliever, relaxer
• Relationship enhancer
• People cultivator
• Hair, nails strengthener
• Heart healer
Loving more is the only detox against toxic social stress — the #1 stressor & killer!
“The most powerful therapy is human love. And we can all give it and receive it every day through a couple of 10-minute open-hearted calls with safe people who are present.”
World's Leading Mental Health & Trauma Clinician, Dr. Bruce Perry, MD, PhD, Renowned Neuroscientist & Psychiatrist, 3-time NYT Best-Selling Author
The extraordinary knows; THE THING that we really want in the things we all chase is actually Philia Love: the essence of happiness to success.
Lastly, loving more also BREAKS YOU FREE from the toxic scarcity culture; which was birthed by our emotionally oppressive (thus creatively repressive) industrial-age education system. This brainwashing system has made the masses (“The Ordinary”) into relationally unsophisticated and EMOTIONALLY isolated/ suppressed/ unintelligent worker-consumer-slaves.
Ever Heard the Logical Song?
“They sent me away to teach me how to be a vegetable.”
“We ought to tend to our hearts more than we tend to our tasks.”
Aristotle
The ordinary make up our toxic scarcity culture who controls others with toxic fear-shame and they are obsessed with lack, perfectionism, and delusions of grandeur — the #1 recipe for unhappiness, loneliness, misery, mental and physical illness. The latter sicknesses bring in $13T per year globally to the “experts” from “The Helping Industries” who peddle in pseudoscience-based pills, programs, and “pros,” and trivial “tips, tricks, and treatments.”
Our Toxic Scarcity Culture Kills Love, and Thus Everything That Makes Life Meaningful
Watch a 1-minute exposé of the media admitting to brainwashing you with “You're not enough!” which triggers toxic social stress. World’s Leading Social Scientist, Top 3 TED Talk, 6-time NYT Best-Selling Author, Dr. Brené Brown, PhD, shows what this means for our daily lives.
“Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct [and enslave] your life and you will call it fate.”
The Father of Psychoanalysis, C.G. Jung
The masses don't FEEL extraordinary because they are brainwashed to chase “extraordinary,” when they should have been taught to simply cultivate it from within themselves with safe others, through Loving More, every day. The only path to become our true extraordinary selves — is by embodying felt-love and all of love's many facets — like the most valuable diamond.
“We can live without meditation, but we cannot survive without human love.”
Dalai Lama
Today, ordinary people in the billions are utterly lost: they don't know they are intrinsically extraordinary. They don't know they are wonderfully made beyond human comprehension. They don't know Philia Love. And because people behave according to who we truly see we are; they don't behave extraordinarily but act like common animals — mindlessly chasing.
Felt-Love Is Our True Home...
Renowned Social Neuroscientist; Prof. Dr. Rick Hanson
Most people don't know that designed into their extraordinary selves, secularly speaking, is their #1 life purpose: to Love More (every day) by learning to receive love and gift love. They don't know that unless they put their #1 life purpose into their daily practice, they will never feel and be extraordinary. They will never enjoy the extraordinary feeling of home — no matter what house they live in or cars they drive, or people they're with.
“Love is the medicine for our sick world. If people can learn to give and receive love, they will usually recover from their physical or mental illness.”
The Father of Modern Psychiatry; Prof. Dr. Karl Menninger, Menninger Clinic
So, cheers to you who Love More every day: you are 100% extraordinary (intrinsically & behaviorally), evidenced by each PUUR you do!